I don't know why the 'i' appears against some matches and not others in my list, since I haven't told Ancestry (yet) who is Parent 1 and who is Parent 2 (therefore any matches labelled as Mother's side or Father's side are the result of my input in the past).OK, you referred to the explanatory information that was briefly available on Ancestry, which I haven't seen. I had read the blog. I couldn't tell how much of your post came from which source or was just your opinion, so I ought to have left Ancestry out of it! My cousin is in the 'both sides' group, not 'unassigned', but labelled as 'Maternal side' (without a little 'i') in my 'all matches' list.
Since close cousins share more segments with us it's far more likely that they'll show up as both sides, given the less than perfect accuracy of any statistical algorithm - it's reasonable to assume that the unexpected side is a false match. We have many, many more distant cousins, so it's hard to assess how likely it is that my mother-in-law's only 'Both sides' match (other than my wife) is genuine. But even if it is, the chances of finding the connections on both sides are negligible. Of the three shared matches, two are Maternal side and one is unassigned (which in this case is probably because the two segments have been assessed by SideView as being on opposite sides).